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writes:iv been with my boyfriend for over two years,the trouble is,i think im getting bored with him.When we go out together its alright and we have a good chat but when i havent seen him for a week or so,i dont seem to miss him,where he seems more keener.I dont know if i still love him anymore.Is it natural to feel like this or should i call it a day? Reply to this Question
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reader, pzeller +, writes (30 December 2005):
 By one definition, love is not a feeling, it's a commitment. "In love" is the feeling which yes, naturally cycles in and out. If you truly love each other, don't expect to always be happy. Heck, they'll be days you're downright pissed. If you were single, would you expect every day to be great. Of course not, there are good days and bad.
The true test of love is how you handle the bad days. If the love is real (if), the good days will always return. If they don't return, talk with him and decide if what you have is love, or if your relationship was based upon temporary feelings alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): Stop boring each otehr to death. Do something exciting. Try to be fun with each other. If it works great if not say bye bye.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (29 December 2005):
 I know EXACTLY how you feel, and i felt like that after my 2 year relationship! If you don't feel the same anymore, it's not fair on you or him. It's not normal for you to feel that way, you either love them or you don't. I will always love my ex, but now i love him as my best friend.
If you feel you can make it work, then try, but that means you have to give it your all.
But if not, save the friendship you have with him and end it now than risk losing him forever!
But personally i think you should end it as hard as it may sound!
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