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writes: I've known the man I married for the past 7 years. We got married last year and I thought we were doing just great. Suddenly, he's talking about having mutiple sex partners with me taking part in the orgy. He's suddenly become interested in taking drugs, quitting his job, etc. He's been acting out, too!!!! Went to a holiday work party and started groping a co-worker, even tried to get "physical" with his sister-in-law after his step-father's funeral service. Does he get sex at home, yes -- lots too, though he says he needs more, but when he gets more, he has major problems having orgasms. He started taking antidepressants a few months ago to help relieve, what the doctor calls, his social anxiety disorder. I'm starting to wonder if the antidepressants are affecting him or whether or not they are simply revealing who he really is. I talked to him about all this and he told me that he'd "mulled it over" and realizes that he's a jerk. He says he only wants me, but I'm not so sure. What to do, oh what to do?
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (29 December 2005):
 I would rush him to the doctor and have them figure out if this could be some sort of problem caused by the medication. Some medicines do affect some people in a weird way so that would be my first course of action. If he has never been interested in these things before then it is unlikely that he has all of the sudden become this stranger to you something is causing it, if not the meds something. He should seek therapy to talk about these issues and get to the bottom of what is causing them. Good luck.
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