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*9queen
writes:Right, there is this boy I really like so I am trying to get with him. Bit every time I turn round my BEST friend is flirting with him, and she knows I like him. How can I tell her nicely to back pod? And why is she doing this, she does it with every boy I like!?! Sooo annoying
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reader, kelsey18 +, writes (15 February 2010):
 Shes not a real friend in my opinion. kind of convenient how she does it to every boy YOU try to get with isnt it? does she do it to any of your other friends? if its just the guys that you like that she targets then theres a problem with your friendship with her.She is feeling some kind of hostility towards you. Trying to prove that she can steal a guy from you? thats not on..you two need to have words and get right to the route of the problem. Hope this sheds some light on things,good luck :) x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 February 2010):
She wants male attention that she is missing from her Dad, so she is throwing herself at other guys to get it. That's the problem. Basically she just wants her Dad. Since she doesn't speak to him, her attention is turned to other guys.
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reader, 19queen +, writes (15 February 2010):
19queen is verified as being by the original poster of the question omg she does have problems with her dad, she stopped talking to him a few years ago.. but how would that link to trying to ge with lads? and strontiumdog, i know i am not doing that same thing, because i dnt flirt really badly with lads just inoccent stuff, but she really goes out her way and practicly throws her self on top of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): She's probably got some kind of self esteem problem. She maybe competing with you. If her relationship with her dad isn't that good, bingo.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 February 2010):
She's jealous, and perhaps isn't a best friend if she is always doing it. Tell her straight you that you like him and that since she is your friend and knows it, the least she can do is not flirt outrageously with him. Clearly if she continues, then she's not a friend.
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