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writes:ok well my life is f**ked atm im being bullied at school and have been 4 years because of this i have no self confidence so i can not talk to the girl im madlly inlove with im doing ok in school but my grads are starting to slip im going into my gcse next year and this is giving me even more streess. i am stright but im starting to think bisexual thoughts about 1 of my best friends this will just make the bullies worse. what do i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys this relly helped
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reader, doom  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 hey man, be more calm.Life is simple, i had a friend who was in your situation try watching some selfconfident movies.Try thinking about it, if you don't aproach that girl wi'll never know.And You will know you r answer in 30 seconds after you asked.Doesn't matter, there are a lot of girls...try finding you like! not the girl that likes everybody!!! it's your decision!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): ok the thoughts about your friend who im guessing is a really good friend who just happens to be a guy this is totally normal. Its up to you if you decide to do anything about this.If you are being bullied you need to talk to the teachers! Get a note pad and every time you are bullied when your are safely away from the people make a not of what was said and what was done. each week present it to the teacher untill it stops. You may also want to tell a few teachers. If the bulling is outside of school the same thing apllies right each thing down with the time and date who it was what they said what they did and so on. Only do it once safely away from them. Then present it to the police. This may seem to much but this kind of thing is not nice i've been there and believe me i would go back in time and do it if i could. You might be frightend but you need to keep telling people do not keep it quiet. I know its not in your nature to be loud but this is due to confidence. While we are on the subject of confidence consider attending a martial arts class. Not so you can kick there ass but so you can build confidence. But if i have to say it a million time i will make sure your tell people about the bulling and do it asap. Now this girl who you cant talk to. You need to do some work to get this thing to work. First you need to find out who her friends are and then you need to find out what she's into and go to her after school classes or what ever she does join in. Maybe take a friend. Things not to do.1. Dont follow her2. Dont just stand there and stair and her3. dont get involved in chinese whispers if you're going to talk to her then go and talk to her dont get someone to do it for you. Also dont listen to others who have messages from her.
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