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writes:I'm with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Ups and downs in our relationship but I love him a lot. But now I think I'm falling for a guy whom I've known since we were really young. We happened to reach each other through the internet last year, we chatted on IM and SMS, hanged out as a group and we meet every now and then when I visit my aunty who lives beside him. I've liked him before (when I was 12?), I was too afraid to say then. And I think I'm falling for him again. I feel that we have a connection somehow. And I'm confused now. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): For starters, don't cheat. It won't make u or anyone feel better.
If you love your boyfriend then stay with him.
If you think the person u are falling for is interested in you and you are interested as well then I suggest to maturely break up with your current boyfriend (but don't say its for another guy). You have to ask yourself why you are unhappy in the relationship.
If you are actually happy in the current relationship, then you may just be acting greedy and prolly gonna get yourself into trouble...especially judging from your age :P
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reader, GabiLC  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 If you really love your boyfriend and want to remain in a relationship with him, I think you need to evaluate why you're falling or starting to have feelings for this other guy. What does he have that your boyfriend does not? Then you need to realize that you're allowing yourself to fall for this guy by continuing to see him. You two can be friends but if your relationship with your boyfriend is not strong enough, friendship will not work; it will just evolve to something else. I hope this helps.
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