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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been single for over a year and quite frankly im PISSED about it! I've had little flings with people but nothing more and its doing my nut. Why is it so hard to find someone?! I dont fancy anyone i REALLY like and it just seems impossible to find someone, even though i go out clubbing all the time. Where am i going wrong?!!?
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (24 April 2007):
I think sometimes if you feel annoyed about being single for so long, that can give off the wrong vibes, and often make potential partners feel unvalued. Often patience is the key to things, really get to know people before just rushing into things, then you know that the next one you have may be worth a lot more than these flings.
As a friend once said, the way to be happy in a relationship is to learn to be happy being single first. The rest will then follow on along
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): Anon., maybe you have answered your own quetion. Clubbing is not the best way to meet someone you could really like. You do say you "like" some others, but don't "fancy them". I don't know what type of person you fancy, so I can't help there. You might try some other places to meet young singles. Clubbing is really a type of "meat market". Unless you are going with a date or group. And few you meet there are really putting thier real selves forward. I do suggest losing the "desperation" attitude. It may show. It's natural to want a "partner". But do some thinking about exactly what kind of partner you want. A "hottie" may be attractive, but that is only superficial. You can't base much on it. Best wishes.
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reader, Love Machine` +, writes (24 April 2007):
 U should try a dating service!
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