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30-35,
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writes:I do not really know when to move on. There is this guy that i have know for 6 years now and still counting. I really like him so much. in fact, during graduation i told him that i love him but he said he cannot reciprocate my feeling. until now i still love him. i have rejected every guy that came my way because i am hoping that this guy will love me back at some point in time.
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reader, citris  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 It's tough business loving someone who doesn't or won't love you back. It's tougher to stay friends with them and try to move on. Rejecting others won't get him to be with you. Don't waste your time and youth on someone who can't deliver! It may sound like a trite answer but it's true. Also this may sound like a game, but if he notices you dating another, it may help him to see you in a more romantic light. This of course isn't fool proof and could end up only hurting a third party, but if you can bring yourself to be honest with this new person and let them know you are harboring old feelings for someone else but are interested in putting them in the past, if they're a good guy and really like you they'll understand and be patient with you. Remember Love is patient and kind, it is not jealous...blah blah blah lol I can't ever remember the whole thing, but it's from corinthians I think. Another thing to think about is this...at your age, People can sure change alot in 6 years. Is this guy the same guy you first fell for 6 years ago? the guy you fell for then, would he reject your feelings this way? If so maybe this is your subconcious way of avoiding a relationship because you really aren't ready for one. Take time to explore yourself and know yourself and I'm sure you'll find the most amazing love of your lifetime sometime in the future! Obviously you are a devoted and caring gal, you deserve someone that's as devoted and loving as you are!
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