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writes:theres this boy in my life i have only met him recently, i really like him but i feel he is preasuring me to have sex with him but dont know how to tell him im not ready but theres this other boy i really want to be with i know he really like me to, but dont know how to tell him i whant to be with him without scaring him off what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Read between the lines. If the first guy is pressuring you for sex then think about what he is like as a person. Could you deal with him in a relationship? You don't sound like the type who just goes for sex to me, so focus on the other guy. Become friends with him, get to know him better and you'll end up better off in the end. Becuase guy number two sounds as if he would take better care of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Do you like both these guys equally as much??? - because it does seem like you are going to have to choose one over the other...
1) Don't give in to the boy whos pressuring you for sex. Just tell him you aren't ready - honesty is usually the best way around things.
2) If you want to be with this other boy then why are you going out with the first guy?? If he's shy I'd become friends with him first before tellinghim what you really think of him....
Well... that's by advice anyway.
Have a good day... x x x
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