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41-50,
*hisGirlisAmy
writes:I have never had sex. I really wish I could have a boyfriend but guys NEVER hit on me. I have thought of using a service like Craigslist just so I can get laid but I am too scared to do that, I don't know what kind of people are out there. Besides I really want more than that, I wish I had a boyfriend I who I could hold tight so badly. I am so sexually frustrated and I want to be able to express that feeling to others but I am afraid they couldn't possibly be sympathetic to me. Am I correct?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 August 2010):
 To "C. Grant," you must be young and very naive. The 30s are no where near being out of the singles realm.
To "ThisGirlAmy," you are NOT correct that no man can be sympathetic, whatever your meaning there, to you as a woman and lover. And you can be sure that some man will love you. There is someone for everyone.
However, you must either get out there (sile and flirt) or get online, but not on CraigsList. Just smile and be receptive to nice looking men (to you) who also seem pleasant. Even consider being rather forward about it if you know that they are "available."
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 It seems the older we get the harder it is to meet someone. When we're teens we're in school, surrounded by people who are like us. Once we graduate and start working, there are fewer and fewer single people our own age with a similar outlook on life.
That said, there are people in their 30s who, like you, are wanting a relationship, who will be sympathetic. You just have to be out there where you can find each other. Do things that interest you. Take a course at a university, something that you've been curious about. That sort of thing. It's not a question of trolling, it's a question of being out in public doing things you like to do. Given enough time, you will come across someone of a like mind. Be confident, be secure, enjoy what you're doing. Don't be needy or seeking. It will come together.
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