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anonymous
writes:Hello DC aunts and uncles. I'm in need of advice, I will make this short. My boyfriend honestly believes that if I have sex with another girl it would "help" our relationship. Personally thats a load of bull. I know it won't I know things will only get worse. Please some one help I hate this problem I'm faced with. It seems, he won't take no for an answer. It's getting, to the point of me shutting down from him asking this of me. I won't leave him regardless I do love him with all my heart so no equities on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): He thinks sex x 2 = double pleasure + double his funHe will get greedy pressure for one sided sexual encounter = women's pleasure/pressure-selfish bastard syndrome=sleeping on the couch and rubbing himself on a cushion alone. Cut him off. Not it, him.
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reader, LustyLisa +, writes (16 March 2011):
Excuse me but what does "won't take NO for an answere mean" Does he have some kind of authority over you that makes what you say/feel irrelivent? Have you expressed interest in lesbian or bisexual relationships?
I think this "amazing" guy you have is trying to live out a fantasy and using you and a female friend to do it. If he's so amazing he should respect your feelings and drop it for the sake of your feelings and relationship. That's what a real amazing man does, he RESPECTS his partner and loves gher regardless.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Nice try by your boyfriend! Tell him to watch some girl on girl porn and leave you out of it. What a tool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): I'm sorry that I did not get into detail about the problem but other than a couple have fights that every couple has, he is down right amazing. He just wants me to have sex with another female as far as I know. But no offense its hard to believe that knowing that almost ever guy loves a threesome. I tried talking to him again about it, but he still has it in his mind that it'll help, sad thing is if I do it I'll leave him.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 How is you having sex with another girl going to help your relationship? Are you generally having problems? If he will not accept no for an answer then he clearly does not respect you and maybe its time you took a minute to really think if you want to be with this guy
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reader, Odds +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Your boyfriend is full of it, and you've fallen in love with a prick (most likely *because* he's a prick). Unless he has a laundry list of redeeming qualities you haven't shared with us, I'd say leave him for a guy who can be satisfied with monogamy.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (16 March 2011):
 I agree with him - it would spice up your relationship no end - FROM HIS POINT OF VIEW!!!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 I'm confused. Are you saying he wants YOU to have sex with a girl or are you saying that he wants you BOTH to have a threesome with a girl.
Why on earth would he think it would help your relationship either way?
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