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writes:I'm very much attracted to my history professor, I don't believe he's married b/c he doesn't wear a ring on his finger, not sure if he has children or not, but I find myself interested in him more than what he is teaching (dont get me wrong I like history as well), and I know everybody gets their occasional little "crush" on their teacher, but I feel like there could be some potential here (Im 21 he's about 45, and yes, I'm interested in older men, theres just something "sexy" about them) and I try to do this thing where I try to get his attetion or "eye contact" by looking straight at him, and it seems as if he gets a bit nervous when I look him in the eyes, he starts to shuffle with his hair and stutter a bit when I ask him a question, and Im just as nervous to talk to him as he is, he is a very kind (way to generous) teacher, and not to sound stuck up or anything, I believe I am an attractive girl who may dress a bit more classy/conservitive type of gal, but is there anything I can (or should do) do to see if there might be more to this attraction.............
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reader, SJ_ninety +, writes (7 March 2009):
 When I was junior in high school, I had a "crush" on my U.S. History teacher. Then again, people thought that was the case because he was the "strange" teacher and I was apparently the "strange" girl who had only a few friends. But I thought this teacher was beyond hot and he was of course, intelligent and very humorous! And I would've done something about it if I was of-age (I was 17 at the time), if he wasn't married, and if I wasn't on the extremely shy side. I'm now 19 and barely ever think about him, haha.
Anyways, the fact that your teacher's all stuttery and what not could be an indication that he's a little weird about the fact that one of his quite attractive and young female students is giving him 'the eye'. Although it could be that he is physically attracted to you as well. I say talk to him a bit more. Ask him to coffee. Considering your own age, it isn't inappropriate but the student/teacher thing is. Be careful with that one. You could get him in trouble.
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