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writes:I am a 17 year old gay male and I am thinking about having anal sex for the first time with my best friend im a little nervous but excited at the same time does anybody have some tips or advice to help me make the experience more enjoyable or less painful or just some advice on anal sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Make sure you have emptied your BOWELS and had a shower before attemping anal sex, Start with a body massage, then move on to rimming [optional], once you are relaxed, try for penetration [doggy style]. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): It'll probably be quite painful to be honest, lets not beat around the bush here. I know I'm not a guy, and I understand that everyone is different, but I passed out with pain. Yeah, he was gentle and everything. But pffff, it hurt so much! I just passed out. But then again, we were pretty stupid and didn't use any lube. So my main advice to you would be lube, lube and more lube. Don't go for the cheap stuff either, but you don't need to be spending millions on it. Remember that you can seriously harm yourself from anal, I've heard you can actually tear muscles and things down there. So be very careful, and if it hurts, stop and give yourself time to adjust!
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reader, Ayda1110  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 if you think you have enough lube, use more.......you can never have enough lube.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): This is a tired question, just type anal sex in the search box on this site and you will get a ton of questions and responses about it.....
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reader, honeyross  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 The first couple of times are a bit sore, so you'll need lots of lubricant - specially formulated anal lube which can be bought in sex shops is best. Positioning is important. Both of you could try lying on your sides, or you could try from other positions - it really depends.You should both be as relaxed as possible. If you're receiving, you'll need to relax down there and get him to be extra slow and gentle. Get him to pull out when it gets sore and then re-enter a few seconds later - this sometimes helps. If it is too painful, stop. Your body has to get used to it. You don't want to do damage.You'll both need to be patient. If it doesn't work at first, don't give up.
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