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writes: I'll try to make this short. I met this girl on the internet and he hit it off pretty good and have had long conversations for about a month. We met face to face on Friday and things went very well in my opinion, and she invited me to a party the next day which I went to. At the party she was with me most of the night and about 80% of the night when she was not with me she was being the bartender. When I left the party she told me she would call me later. That was on Saturday and I have not heard from her yet and I think I should call her. I really like her and for some reason I'm really afarid of rejection with this one. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): I am in the same boat right now...and i went with the calling option, she didnt answer...left a voicemail. Now the ball is in her court. If she wasnt gonna call in the first place nothing lost...and if she was and waiting for my call, then i have done my part.
buddy, you gotta do what feels right. finallly evrything is for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): I am in the same boat right now...and i went with the calling option, she didn't answer...left a voicemail. Now the ball is in her court. If she wasn't gonna call in the first place nothing lost...and if she was and waiting for my call, then i have done my part.buddy, you gotta do what feels right. finallly evrything is for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): dude ima tell tou straight out, if she hasnt called you DONT CALL HER..if you do you'll look desperate. Women love it when they feel that they've got the guy on check..if you call her thats exactly what she'll think,,be strong and hold your ground..if she really does like you then she will call...remember you might not be the only one who's hanging around the phone all day waiting for a call...good luck and stay strong like the man you are...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2005): heyI personally wouldn't call her. I mean, let's face it, I am assuming she is a mature adult? If she said she was gonna call and didn't, that's lame. High school is over, it's time to end those little girly games. I can understand if she was 16 or 18 maybe, but you don't need someone who is that immature. That's a good first sign. If she acts like that over a phone call, imagine how goofy she will be over other things. Stay away.
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reader, psychic1 +, writes (7 June 2005):
This seems like a great opportunity to get to know this girl even more. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Even tho she said she would ring you later, she was the one who asked you to the party on your last date together. So it would be best for you to show her your interest in her by calling first. Girls are still brought up being told to let the boys do the chasing. It would show her that you are a gentleman. And remember this always: NO ONE CAN EVER REJECT YOU, THEY CAN ONLY REJECT THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE WITH YOU AT THIS PRESENT MOMENT, so go for it, or your'll never know. All the best!
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reader, Crazy_About_B +, writes (7 June 2005):
If she hasn't called you that means she either doesn't like you or she has been to busy if she doesn't call you. In two more days call her and see what she has been up to and if she rejects you, don't worry. Keep your head up because there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't forget there is a women for every man and a man for every woman. All you have to do is look.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 I think you should go ahead and call her. You both put equal time into getting to know each other. It's worth finding out what she thought about you. If she had a good time with you. If she'd like to see you again. And three days is plenty of time to figure out how you feel about someone. I'll say it again, go ahead and call her. Best of luck to you.
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