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writes:Classic Aries male in his 30's and I have a professional relationship with a classic Saggittarius female who's been driving me crazy. This girl could possibly be put on earth to be my soulmate. I love everything about her. Now the problem is two folds, first I'm already in a relationship, and I think if I tell her she might get scared and run, lol. Then I would never see her again. Any help from female Sagg's will be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Forget it. I'm a sagitarian and I dont want to share. Either you finish the other relationship with the other person or forget it. We are loyal, honest and trustworthy and dont believe in any kind of "affairs". Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): Unlike some of the others here. I do believe absolute love does exist.Is it so rare that maybe one couple in a century will ever experience it? Probably. Should it be denied? No. Cherished? Yes.Whether true love exists or not is not the point. The point is we all need something to aspire to that isn't tainted by reality or destruction of humility. The notion of a love so true that it CANNOT under any circumstances be broken is simply one of those things.Love transcends such trivial things as birth-signs or personalities. Else so many couples that, according to horroscopes and superstitions, shouldn't be compaitbale exist and thrive.So if you love the girl, what do you care if a piece of paper somewhere says you should or shouldn't. It's YOUR and HER feelings that should matter most. No one elses.Who knows, maybe you'll get luck and score that once in a century love of a lifetime. And if you don't pretend it is. Works for everyone else.Flynn 24
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reader, Markingbad  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 You should tell her. She may knock some sense into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Oh for God's sake you are one of those people who believe in a soul mate and someone up there putting someone else on this planet to be your destiny.
What a load of crap...sorry this makes me cranky.
There is a thing called soul mateism, where people actually hold out for finding that perfect lover for them, they put their lives and relationships on hold because they are forever searching for the perfect love.
Well, buddy, get a clue a perfect love does not exist, no one can love you or understand you perfectly.
There are many many soul mates on this planet for you to marry or be in relationship with. If you are using this concept of a soul mate in order to avoid committment with your current relationship then you are a big dope!
Either decide to leave your current relationship because you are not into it and then date someone else, but do not put this on the stars and the universe, no one is steering the ship except you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): You have to decide who you want more, your partner or her. It is a risk, and if you leave don't expect to be able to get back with your partner
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Why are you crazy about this girl? I suppose it is because you are spending time with her (either professionally or otherwise). ALthough it might be a requirement for you to spend time with her at work, there are ways you can act that might prevent you getting to close to her emotionally which you haven't done.Think how unfair it is to your girlfriend to have you thinking about another girl. Nothing hurts more than having your loved one constantly thinking about another person. It also shows disrespect on your part. If I were you , I would evaluate your relationship with your gf. Are you really tired of her? Is the Sagg girl worth leaving your gf for? ALthough the new girl might seem amazing and awesome at this point, bear in mind that she too is human and she will have her flaws. Make sure this is not a case of 'grass is greener' before you do anything.If you have really fallen out of love with your gf, then you owe it to her to tell her. Break up with her and THEN think about moving on. Saggi female
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (23 October 2009):
 .... Ok. Ignoring the zodiac psudoscience. Your post is something more down to earth like this -"I am a 30 year old professional man who in a relationship who is attracted to another woman who I think is the one for me. Any advice from people born around the same month as her?"My advise is if you really think this other woman is the one for you, you need to drop your partner and allow her to find "the one" for her since clearly you dont think the same about her. It would be unfair and cruel to continue an illusion like that for her.Only after you break up with her could you ever approach this girl you think is the one. Nothing ventured nothing gained. If you are single you can do as you like.HonningKanin
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Sorry Dude,First off, Forget the star signs . Your in a relationship. Cop on to yourself, either break up with your current GF or stay with her but either way you need to take responsibility for your actions and stop saying its because of yyour star sign.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (23 October 2009):
 I know this may not help, or you may already know, lol, but Aries and Saggitarius are supposedly a match made in astrological heaven! I'm an Aries girl, and have always got on best with those who are Saggitarius.. Yet my fiance's a Scorpio, but close enough huh? Lol but I must say, before you decide to act on anything, you must decide on what you're doing with your current relationship. How is it going at the moment?
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