A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ive had sex with my guy, But he was using a condom every time we did it. I never got bleeding. Nor did he. So am I still a Virgin? and is he still a virgin?
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male
reader, RyanS +, writes (20 May 2010):
no dear, neither of your are virgins anymore.
while you are not a virgin, you can still be glad that you had safe sex with a condom.
now don't stop using the condom anytime soon.
A
male
reader, Honest Answer +, writes (20 May 2010):
Your not a virgin, and neither is he. If we used the logic that usless you ditch the condom there wasn't sex, then would you concider it cheating if you b/f used a condom with another woman? Of course it would be.
I applaud you for using protection (condom). Don't let your b/f trick you into sex without one in order to be your first. Other then abstenance, a condom is the best protection against STDs. You only have to have unprotected sex once to get pregnant or get an STD.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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A
male
reader, Yos +, writes (20 May 2010):
No.
India clearly has work to do when it comes to sex ed.
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A
male
reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (20 May 2010):
Since when did a condom become a virgin barrier?
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A
female
reader, Plexi +, writes (20 May 2010):
Not all girls bleed the first time they have sex. You had intercourse.................you are NOT a virgin and neither is he
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A
female
reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (20 May 2010):
NO
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A
female
reader, KarmicIllusions +, writes (20 May 2010):
vir·gin (v?r'j?n)1. a woman, esp. a young woman, who has never had sexual intercourse2. an unmarried girl or woman/ a man, esp. a youth, who has never had sexual intercourse3. Informal a person who is entirely new to or inexperienced in a specified thingIt's obvious that your not a virgin. The bleeding occurs when the hymen breaks, but there have been cases of girls being born with out the hymen OR simply breaks it by using tampons, doing a split(Some say)or Ridding a horse(Some say). It could have just meant you broke it before this happened or you weren't born with it.
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A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): NO, you are not a virgin. You said it yourself, you had SEX.
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A
female
reader, PeanutButter +, writes (20 May 2010):
If you have had vaginal intercourse and his penis entered you at all (with or without a condom)then nope, you are no longer a virgin and neither is he. There does not have to be any bleeding involved.
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