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Are we still Virgins?

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Question - (20 May 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive had sex with my guy, But he was using a condom every time we did it. I never got bleeding. Nor did he.

So am I still a Virgin? and is he still a virgin?

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A male reader, RyanS United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2010):

RyanS agony auntno dear, neither of your are virgins anymore.

while you are not a virgin, you can still be glad that you had safe sex with a condom.

now don't stop using the condom anytime soon.

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntYour not a virgin, and neither is he. If we used the logic that usless you ditch the condom there wasn't sex, then would you concider it cheating if you b/f used a condom with another woman? Of course it would be.

I applaud you for using protection (condom). Don't let your b/f trick you into sex without one in order to be your first. Other then abstenance, a condom is the best protection against STDs. You only have to have unprotected sex once to get pregnant or get an STD.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (20 May 2010):

Yos agony auntNo.

India clearly has work to do when it comes to sex ed.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

Since when did a condom become a virgin barrier?

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (20 May 2010):

Plexi agony auntNot all girls bleed the first time they have sex. You had intercourse.................you are NOT a virgin and neither is he

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (20 May 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntNO

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A female reader, KarmicIllusions Puerto Rico +, writes (20 May 2010):

KarmicIllusions agony auntvir·gin (v?r'j?n)

1. a woman, esp. a young woman, who has never had sexual intercourse

2. an unmarried girl or woman/ a man, esp. a youth, who has never had sexual intercourse

3. Informal a person who is entirely new to or inexperienced in a specified thing

It's obvious that your not a virgin. The bleeding occurs when the hymen breaks, but there have been cases of girls being born with out the hymen OR simply breaks it by using tampons, doing a split(Some say)or Ridding a horse(Some say). It could have just meant you broke it before this happened or you weren't born with it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

NO, you are not a virgin. You said it yourself, you had SEX.

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

PeanutButter agony auntIf you have had vaginal intercourse and his penis entered you at all (with or without a condom)then nope, you are no longer a virgin and neither is he. There does not have to be any bleeding involved.

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