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26-29,
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writes: There this guy im in love with, his names victor. We never dated but we've knew each other since September. I told him I liked him and he didn't feel the same. Time passed and by feb he had fallen for me..he began to tell me he cares and we'd talk 24/7 texting. @ school he'd give me hugs..then things had go bad and something happened and he said he didn't love me and that was because I had hurt him..finally once again were talking. He sits next to me now in my college prep class and @ first id be really shy and not talk @ all then now he's trying to get me to elk so hell start talking about my hair or outfit or my bag or how I write. he'd try to just make conversation..were talking a lot more..now he's flirting again and he seems to care again..me and my friend were doing a hugging contest and he said he'd help me out with that..so he gave me hug.it seems like he's trying to get things back how they used to..I still love him and he's been flirting and telling me that im so awesome..we have service hours coming up and he wants to be my partner so ill be spending the whole day with him..the problem that happened in the past was maybe I was moving too fast and he was scared to be in a relation and that I had cared so much about him..now he's opening up and things are getting better..should I consider that he still cares? So he care? Before when he was mad @ me we wouldn't talk @ all..he'd just look @ me and give me this look..now we are talking again and he doesn't have his phone anymore but on myspace he writes to me everyday and haha I think checks my status and that's how he knews what im always up to..so like I always though that this guy is the one. I felt that I couldn't live without his company and being my friend and I thought id never talk to him like I did and I lost hope and now it happened..were back how we used to be..did this happen for a reason and god made this happen for a reason?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh and now he's been acting wierd..I asked him for a hug and he's like no and I had lent him a dollar and gave him gum earlier and I told him you won't give me a hug after I lent u a dollar and he's like now you think you can buy my love and he's like you think you can buy my hugs..and im like omg that isn't even anything im trying to do, I just told him that so he can apreciate me being nice and give me a hug to say thank you..then he's like yea I kw..and then he's like well take it up with christian(his friend) and he's like christian was like wht?!?! when I hugged u the other day.and like that happend yesterday and today in our college class we were studying and I was kinda still hurt what he told me so I ignore him and he tried to get my attention..he'd annoyingly tapping his pen and then I was looking @ my hand because I was done with my work and so bored and then he slides his hand right in front of me..and looks under my bangs cuz I had my head down and then he smiles..idk what's up with this guy..one day he is wow the next day I hate him, then he's so wow..and he's not the guy to talk about his feelings unless its by text or email
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): You should really ask him because It isnt fair If he is just messing around but it does sound like he has some strong feelings for you just dont come on too strong
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