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writes:My wife is so angry about the affair that i had and the affair that she had, one minute she is calm and confident, the next she is so angry towards me, telling me to leave her alone. I dont want to lose her what can i do?, what should i say? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Bit more back ground for all of you... story is too long and I am too bored with all of this now. In february, while his children were wearing worn shoes he took his lover to a hotel and paid for everything, while everyone thought he was camping in the snow up a mountain, possibly dead.
And he wonders why I had an affair. In hindsight just wish the affair was more than meaningless sex
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (16 December 2009):
I don't know what else you would like us to tell you, except that you just have to remain contrite and let her rant without fighting her back. For you to keep reposting it must be really tough to deal with. Just take your punishment and maybe within a year or so things will start to settle. Good luck
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 oh, thankyou Marieclaire, I think his problem has already been adequately answered
for those who dont know the story:
He had an affair, she suspected he had an affair so to even things up she had an affair, he found out, she confessed, sounds like he said he didnt have an affair, she admitted her guilt, she may have asked for forgiveness, they reconciled, her thinking she was the only one who had strayed, he knowing different, now she has found out he did have the original affair, she knows now that he let her do all the crawling and begging for forgiveness. Laughing up his sleeve maybe, she is now angry because she put herself on the line, he accepted it, he is dishonest, he didnt fess up when he should have, he accepted all her contrition as his due, and now he has to pay for being such a nasty sort.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (16 December 2009):
you both had affairs and you wife is angry about your affair and her affair. You question doesn't really give much of a background, so its really hard to guage what is happening with you both and your marriage.
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