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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:We are both exchange students in a strange country. He is slightly older than me and we have been meeting in our university campus between and after classes for like two. We constantly text each other in college to find out when we both are free so we can meet up. We went out on Valentines Day for a movie, coffee, lunch but no one wished each other. We have going for movies,lunches, teas walks during college hours when we are free and weekends but he hasnt made a move on me however he is always suggesting to meet up all the time. He is very caring and is always interested in my life and remembers stupid details from our conversations. We have amazing conversation for hours with extended eye contact. Once after a movie I joked a lot that his hair went all funny after leaning back on the movie seat. The next day he left college early to go to the hairdressers :) We have exchanged books and music stuff as well.we go out for lunch all the time. Recently we spent ten hours together on the weekend. He lives far away from my house, he picked me up and dropped me home. On my birthday, we went out for lunch, movie and coffee and he didnt let me pay although we usually split the bill.Its so obvious we like each other but does he just like me as a friend? One problem may be that my friends back home say that I can intimidate men because (I'm not being immodest) I am attractive and carry myself well and men apparently feel I'll reject them.What do I do? I like him so much and want him to say something or atleast make a move. Also he's rather shy and um, from Sweden if that makes any differenceI am so confused. Arrgh
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 Ignore your friends, relax and take this statement "I am attractive and carry myself well and men apparently feel I'll reject them" out of the equation. This is not helpful in the least.
This guy likes you and he's being a gentleman. What a concept! Tell him how much you like him. You'll be surprised at what happens. Get back to me. Let me know how it goes.
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