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writes:I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone type of thing. In high school there was a guy Taylor, he was a TOTAL player, he slept with pretty much every girl in our high school and then usually dumped them and told his friends about it. 3 yrs later I meet him at a college event and we started talking and over the past 2 months we started hanging out, he is a really nice guy , a few people I talked to said he was still a player. A few nights ago we started talking and he told me that he wasnt the guy everyone thought he was and that he changed a lot since high school. I think maybe he did, everyone does things in high schiool that they wish they could change but my friends all think he is playing me. Who do you think is right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Let's say a used car salesman has ripped off everyone in town. Terrible rep. Then you meet him 3 years later and everyone in town says he hasn't changed a bit. But he tells you that he's not that guy anymore and he wants to sell you a great used car right now.
Do you trust him?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Those people who told you he's a player aren't blowing smoke up your ass. Often once a player, always a player. Once you hit college the playing field is pretty vast.
Of course he's going to deny those allegations and make himself out to be this great guy who learned from his mistakes in high school. But I call bullshit. That's how he works the woman, buttering her up, telling her what she wants to hear then once he's done with her, she's tossed aside like yesterday's newspaper.
If I were you I wouldn't bother, you're only going to get hurt in the end.
You probably will proceed but you have been warned.
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reader, lets hope +, writes (20 October 2010):
lets hope is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe person I was 3/4 years ago in high school is not the person I am today. I grew up, I changed. So I think that maybe he could to. Yes I know that he was a player and even he admits to it, its nto liek he is in denial or any thing.
I dont plan on jumping into bed with him. Just thinking maybe he is a different guy,
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 He may have changed, he may be different, he may be genuine... that's what every girl he ever played probably thought about him too... before they were played.
Be wary.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2010):
Are you willing to take that chance? You know he was a player, and often the players remain players for a very long time. Your friends are telling you that he is still the same guy. So, are you willing to take a chance? If yes, take it very slowly with him.
My opinion? Don't give him the chance.
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