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Are guys really addicted to checking out other women even if they are with someone?

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Question - (14 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

are all guys adicted to really checking girls out when they are with someone else or is that just natural

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009):

I think it's a learned behavior and both men and women do it, or not, depending on how they were brought up. If they lived in a family that talked about other people all the time, it's been with them for a long time and is a pretty hard habit to break. For people that do it, they don't mean anything by it and mostly don't even realize they are doing it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009):

General disrespect for his partner and wanting something different if you ask me

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A female reader, HereAreMyTwoCents United States +, writes (14 September 2009):

HereAreMyTwoCents agony auntIt's just human nature, in both genders. Don't worry about it.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (14 September 2009):

person12345 agony auntYes, but don't immediately assume that in checking out every girl he's also lusting after her. It's just plain rude if he does it obviously though. It's not so much an ingrained habit as just something everyone, especially every guy, does. I assume you notice almost every guy on the street, check them out, give them a quick once over, and decide how you feel about how they look. Does that mean you're actually lusting after them or imagining them naked? No, no it does not. It's just sort of a, hey let's people watch. Also if a beautiful woman walks past you'll notice that it's not just the men looking. It's sometimes just kind of hard not to look. You can find someone beautiful but not be lusting after them. So can guys. You'll know you have a good respectful guy if when a gorgeous girl walks past he keeps walking forwards stony-faced and then promptly walks into a door because he's trying so hard not to look.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009):

Ingrained habit.

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