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writes: I am married. I love my husband very dearly. I came in contact with an old high school friend fact we were friends since diapers. We have been E- mailing each other since our 20th class reunion and we do some friendly-no-meaning flirting but I had some small feelings for my friend but I know he's just friendly. We have gone out for dinner and drinks and we did kiss and I am thinking of seeing him this weekend. I want to just as friends. Do you think this is so terribly wrong for me to do? He is a good friend.thanks christine
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reader, wishes +, writes (19 October 2005):
I would definately recommend that unless you want to cheat on your husband, you dont see him. I think deep down you know that it would happen and he probably does to. If you are not happy with your current relationship you need to spend some time on that- go out with your husband this weekend! After a period of time being married, you do start to get into a boring routine, and love the feeling of someone else being attracted to you and making you feel special. Be strong and please hold back. If you want to make it clear to yourself and to him that you just want to be friends, invite your husband out with you. Or make it during the day- as somehow thats less romantic and there is less chance something will happen. Best wishes with it all Christine. Hang in there x
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