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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm trying to get with this girl I met while me and my friends were out clubbing. She's one of my friend's friends. We've seen each other twice and both times it just ended up with us grinding on each other on the dance floor. I just don't know what to say or how to say it, if you get my meaning. Any suggestions?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Meet up with her outside of the dancefloor. Or invite her out for a drink/food before going out clubbing next? Or just suggest to do something completely different from clubbing?
Start by asking for her number, then send her a text to start conversation, like "Hi! How are you?"
Just get conversation started and things should flow by themselves if she's interested.
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reader, Roshii  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Be yourself (cliché much? )
but seriously if your wondering if she wants to spend time with you invite her for a drink. or see a movie, or both then let her pick.
if she says yeah you take her to the option she picked, then you ask her if she'd like to do it again, and you take it from there. you talk you get to know one another. Attraction is much more complicated endeavor for a woman if its to do with actually dating or seeing someone.
So just present her with the opportunity of getting to know you, and spend some time with her in date like settings just being yourself and getting to know one another. Let her know your not after just one thing.
hope that helps
Roshii
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