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writes:Basically last year me and girl x had a bit of a thing going on throughout summer. for some reason though it went awry and we didnt speak for a while and hated each other. Then around christmas we sort of rekindled again. its the sort of friends with benefits thing, but she says shes proper in love with me.ive known girl y for a while now. we proper love each other but theres something making it hard for us to be together. Shes got really close to girl x and now there best friends. me and girl y dont know what to do because we really want to be together, but girl y feels bad on girl x, and isnt sure. i dont love girl x anymore, but it just feels like shes making it hard for us.She knows about me and girl y, but she doesnt seem entirely comfortable with it, and when us three are all together it feels extremely awkward.What should I do!
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 i completly agree with smiles, but make sure you try and keep girl x as a friend, dont cut her loose unless she really interfers with your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): I suggest that if you and girl "y" have discussed this and are sure about your feeling for each other and that you want to be in a relationship with each other, you should talk to girl"x" and explain the situation to her. If there after she does not respect the relationship between you and girl "y" and still makes things difficult for the two of you; I suggest cut her loose. Stop having any contact with her, that counts for both you and girl "Y"
In fact that might be the only way the two of you will be able to try and have a relationship, as by the sounds girl "x" might otherwise always interfere.
Good luck!
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