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writes: Ok i need some love advice...Im 15. I have a friend, i want him as more than a friend though he is also 15.How do i get him to notice me? [he already talks to me as we hang out in the same group of friends, but i want him to notice me in a loving way as opposed to a just friends' way] and to possibly say yes if i ask him out.And any advice on how to ask him out? Help would be much appreciated.. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): I suggest you mention to him there is a movie that you would like to go see and ask if he would not like to go along; then take it from there!
Have fun and enjoy!
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): its easy if u already know him that makes it easier because he knows u sooo he might say yes..all u gotta do is give him signs that u like him.like when u guys hang out or sit at lunch together or something always sit next to him..and talk to him ask him stuff
and flirtttt smile
and all that stuff theres more tips if u google it but then..make ur relationship soo strong that he falls for u then maybe he might ask u out before u ask him out.or just ask him out
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reader, iGirly +, writes (9 August 2008):
Maybe you should try subtle flirting and hinting at the fact you like him as more than a friend.
If he reciprocates that most likely means he is feelin it too!
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reader, xnickx +, writes (9 August 2008):
If i'm going to notice someone, i'm going to look for someone who shows interest in me.
Just start being a little more flirty. Make eye contact, give him a bashful wink or something. Just give him a sign, and if he's interested he'll flirt back or tell you he likes you.
On the other side, you could always make the first move. Ask him to go somewhere outside of your group of friends, the park, a beach if you live near one, just anywhere public that you can be with him. More than likely, he'll get teh idea and either reciprocate and tell you he likes you, or again, on the other side you could find the right moment and tell him what you want from him.
Whatever you do, just go for it. If you want him as more than a friend and you never go for it, you'll never know what could be. And dont over-hype the situation. You don't need to be more nervous than your going to be. Just relax, and have fun. He'll like you for that. Good Luck!!!
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