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An electrician and a welder both proposed to me. I don't love either, so I think I may choose based on school and job qualifications.

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Question - (20 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello i have a question

I have got 2 marriage proposals from 2 guys one is electrician and he has a techical certificate.

The other guy doesnt have any qualifications but he owns his own welding shop .They are all good men

since i dont love any yet i would like to know does man with good school qualification make a better home or not.

does job matter in making a marriage succeed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007):

oh no! dont take either if you dont love them. even people who are madly in love with each other have problems in their marriage, so imagine if you didnt love them. your marriage wouldnt last long at all. wait till you love someone to get married, thats what its all about.

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A male reader, goodbutnotgifted United States +, writes (20 February 2007):

goodbutnotgifted agony auntyouve got a full plate and sounds like you have the financial angle figured out but your not in love so I wouldnt be making any promises anywhere. but all around me folks are getting into selfish or unsatisfying relationships based on stupid things, you might find better information for your situation in the cheating section or in the mariage problems link at the home page. I hope you are able to leave them all or both and find LOVE.

life will take care of itself but marrying on acount of accomplishments is asking for a life like a television drama. honestly you will find more help with some time alone thinking after reading what makes other relationships fail, mainly because your begging for devorece court and havent even told how you are catching so many proposals at once. Whatever led your life here, you obviously need to think about things for yourself I realy dont beleive I have your whole story though.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntNo! Love matters in making a marriage succeed! Don't marry either of them. Your soulmate is out there. You just need to look a little harder.

CD

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007):

I don't think it does.

If I were you, I wouldn't accept either, seeing as you don't love them.

Why don't you wait until you fall in love them or find someone that you love.

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