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writes:Thanks in advance My husband is so mentally abusing. It’s beem a difficult time for me. He does disrespectful things to me. He goes on instagram and follows escorts , naked women and if I tell him nicely this bothers me, he gets livid! He puts me down says mind my own business and also tells me he will block me if I make any more fusses about his account. I should mention I only brought this up once. Yet he makes me feel like it’s been forever. He tells me I’m problematic. I’m a drama queen. Meanwhile I don’t do anything wrong. Also , he tells me he will curse me to death. Because he has been acting strangely and I looked on the computer browser and found headache after sex. There was one issue we didn’t have sex. Far from when that was googled. Also hook up sites. I asked him and he flipped and yet again he made it seem like I’m the issue to take my focus away from what he was doing. He is hard to talk to. If I ask a question it becomes a war on me. I can’t say anything. It’s like I’m supposed to sit there and take his mouth and his cheating. Any suggestions ‘?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (10 June 2019):
 Why are you putting up with this? I am assuming from the vocabulary you use that you may be from a different culture. It that the reason you allow him to speak to you like he does and to treat you like he does? Because it is expected in your culture you stay married? I am pretty sure there is no culture which expects you to tolerate disrespect and abuse.
Sweetheart, you know you are worth better. You know your husband has no respect for you. Stop wasting your life in this non-relationship. Do what you need to do to get out of the marital home (find a place of your own, move back to parents or in with friends temporarily if that is viable) and start divorce proceedings. Start living the life you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2019): No You are not supposed to put up with people like this in your life you are supposed to leave them behind and fill your life with people who are good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2019): My suggestion is for you to get the hell out of this marriage. He's made it clear he has no interest in listening to you, let alone changing his ways for you. He's emotionally and likely physically cheating on you. How much longer are you going to put up with this? For your sake not any longer I hope.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (9 June 2019):
 OP...Honeypie is dead on. Would you another 5 years of this life?? If yes...then there is no problem. If no...then...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2019): You're not supposed to, but it's up to you whether you stay or not.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 June 2019):
 Sound like you marriage is over but you are both flogging that dead horse.
What DO you get out of your marriage?
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