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writes:me and my girlfriend were very very close.on a sunday she told me i was the best,made love and she didn't want me to leave.on the monday i was dumped.that hurt was incredible.she has 2 remaining articles of mine.cassettes.only sentimental value to me.i want them back.we've been split now for 4 wks.i ask for them but she says its an excuse to go over.so i even sent her an envelope, postage paid to send them back.she still refuses.also,i can't go over now cos she says she's told the police i'm harrassing her.not true.i just want these last 2 things and then thats it.she wil not let me talk.she hangs up or starts shouting.i've written lettrs to ask.what do i do Reply to this Question
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (21 September 2007):
 That is awfully rude of her to keep what is rightfully yours.
I'm gonna go with Leanne on this one; give her a little time. A couple/few months, let her calm down, clear her head, and then you can ask again. She is obviously pretty confused about things to go from one extreme to the other the way she did.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (21 September 2007):
I suggest you forget the tapes and buy new ones on ebay. She's not worth the aggravation. Otherwise, you come across as being petty.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 she has no right in keeping you posessions and is adding insult to injury by refusing to return them but maybe she is the one who doesn't want to see you.she needs time to clear her head and move on and i know, i know how hard it is, but you need to understand that there must have been a reason for her doing this and when she feels she can, she'll explain things. maybe tell the police you just want the cassettes for sentimentle reasons and they might help you out?good luck.
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