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writes: ive been with my boyfriend over three years hes cheated on me before and let me down many times promising to change and not sticking to it,hes realy nice to me nicer than any other guy i know and our relationship has been great for a while. he recently promised me he never looks at any other girls as he is not interested at all. ive just found out he looks at internet porn a lot? am i right to be getting at him?help please!
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reader, katzkitten  +, writes (11 August 2006):
 boys look at porn all the time. i was in a sexual relationship ish for a while and all through it he looked at porn. its just something fun for boys. well thats how i see it
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): No way...you are completely right to be upset.....If more women put their foots down and refused to date losers who watch porn men would soon stop thinking its ok.....trust your feelings...he's not the one for you
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reader, Tsukijin +, writes (10 August 2006):
 Your boyfriend looking at porn probably makes you feel , hurt and even sexually inadequate. You may be feeling that he doesn't fancy you but it's just something that guys do. It's just a guys fantasy to do it with other women, porn is just a stimulus for this. I'm sure you'd rather him look at porn than actually go for another girl. Tell your boyf how you feel, ask him if he would consider giving it up, as it hurts your feelings and makes you upset. If he refuses and it still bothers you, think of it as I do. - alot of the time, the girls who broadcast themselves in this way have no self respect, no shame, and no personality and are usually fake, so basically he's getting excited over silicon and airbrush art and it is HIS problem.
Good luck
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reader, pica +, writes (10 August 2006):
He cheats and lets you down but he's a lot nicer than anyone else? I'm just sorry you've met so many losers! I don't think anyone can change their partner, we can try to tolerate differences and work together on things but it does sound like he does what he wants and you let him, sorry ... I don't think you you get at him, I think you should get _over_ him, and find someone who deserves you a lot more ;))
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reader, unclerich +, writes (10 August 2006):
av u asked him y??av u watched it with him??maybe he has fantasy.this guy loves u and u love him try watchin it wiv him
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