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writes: There is this guy i kind know... and really like! I was out of town taking pictures at a rodeo event (approx. 3hrs from where i live) and lo and behold i see him across the street. My parents were with me but i was walking ahead of them. They stopped to talk to his dad, aka. my mom's boss (it's a really small town, they were talking across the road). I stopped and was listening when i noticed his son, the guy i like, was there also. I couldn't help but look... and then he looked at me too and was smiling. Even after his parents began to walk away he was still looking at me and smiling... does this mean something?xxx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): Means maybe he thought you were cute or he was caught up in something in his head and contined to stand there grinning like an idiot. *shrugs*
Either way I agree with soul in all that she says. It was some very good advice.
I think making first friendly contact is a good idea. It sounds corny but I don't see what is wrong with taking over some baking and discussing the latest cool song or movie.
Take it slow and wait.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): thank you.. :)
It just seems weird to me though, that he was only looking at me. It's like one of those fairytale moment kinda things... i was smiling at him to. I kind looked away and then peeked back and he was still looking, not a contanst stare but enough to mean something, i think. Every once in awhile he would look down and then back up at me. I am sure he wasn't looking at anyone else cause i was the only one there... just by what you have heard does it sound like silent flirting?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (10 August 2006):
Well, I guess you'll never know until you ask him! Maybe he was just being friendly, maybe he likes you too. But to find out, you're just going to have to bite the bullet and speak to him!
Have a bit of a flirt but don't look too desperate. If he doesn't make the first move, leave him stewing for a while. If he's interested, he'll come to you then, won't he? Don't ask for him number or anything, wait for him to do it. But you'll have to be the one to approach him though.
Good luck, I hope your feelings are reciprocated!
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