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writes:There's this girl who i'm interested in. A few years ago she was totally crazy, like insane doing weird stuff and trying to fight other girls about me. I couldnt stand her then and did everything I could to make her go away. then we both switched schools and talked in a friendly way a few times since, and now we've started talking again, but in a more "liking" each other way. so there are two things. First, a lot of my friends still hate her and think she's crazy which is the main reason i'm hesitant to move into anything more serious, should i go for it despite what my friends will say about it? Second, sometimes she stops texting me mid conversation and it bothers me. Am i overreacting? thanks guys
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 I will just say again, that back a few years ago i was a lose canon.
I was pretty obessive and full on, not to mention i was the craziest person in school, simply because i was going through a real rough time, but now i am the complete opposite.
Remember people grow up, they change etc. She could be the complete opposite now, so don't judge her by what she did in the past. Judge her by how she acts towards you and others now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe stuff she was doing was pretty over the top. she was trying to start fights with other girls, and wouldnt leave me alone no matter what i said i did. i would be as unpleasant as possible for a few days, at the end of which she was freak out and say she hated me and all of that type of stuff, then she would be back at it the next day doing the same stuff.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (2 December 2011):
 Good friends are hard to find so I wouldn't dismiss the opinions of yours too quickly. They see what you yourself saw (and still see) in this girl.
What exactly did she do that caused you to think she was crazy? Are we talking about embarrassing idiosyncracies or high risk behaviour?
More information is needed.
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reader, heartbroken princess +, writes (2 December 2011):
well what did she used to do and what stuff does she do sometimes thats werid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, i feel substantially less stressed about it now. she just stopped texting me again though lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2011): Don't worry about what your friend's say about her. She has probably grown up a lot in the past couple of years. If you like her and want to be with her, and she likes you that is what matters, just be careful that she doesn't start acting crazy again. Also ask her why she stops texting you mid conversation, or better yet don't text a conversation just call her and talk instead. Good Luck.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (1 December 2011):
Its ovbious your friends are going to hate her if not that long ago she was fighting other girls for you. But it doesn't matter what they think, you can't let them choose who you love for you, its about what you think, do you think she's off her head? Do you think shes a kind person who you like?
It only matters what you think as i can garantee you no matter who you ever get with there will always be someone who will have something to say about it.
As for the texting there could be 100 different reasons why she stops texting you mid sentance and i really wouldn't worry about it. I have a friend who if he can't be asked will stop speaking half way through a phone convorsation for no reason what so ever!
Also this girl, she might of been mad or abit crazy a few years ago, but that was a few years ago, she's probably grown up now and calmed down alot. So i would just relax.
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