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female
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writes:Hey to all of you that will read this. ;)OK so my question is am only good enough to be the other woman? I'm soon to be 20 ( yay me ) and Im single. At first I didn't mind but after the months kept rolling me past I started to get down. I'm very nice and super funny, I love to laugh, I Make everyone feel comfortable and I'm also very pretty. I love to look nice and smell good and still learning to do Make up lol but other Than That I'm good to go. ( any tips ladies on make up let me know ) But I don't understand why can't I find a nice single Guy. If I do he either has a gf and i'll tell you guys the truth I did get involved with a Guy who did have a girlfriend I did feel bad but I was so so so curious on how sex felt Like. And it was great!!!! Like I know what my friends was talking about. But That Guy Didnt have a gf the whole time, in fact he wanted me to be His girl but things didn't work out. I miss him a lot. So after that I haven't had sex or even went on a date. Why? Because I haven't met anyone I'm starting to think I'm going to die Alone because of What I did. I was just REALLY curious I never had a boyfriend before him but one other Guy and the sex was not good. So I came across him and we we're friends first but not anymore. So I haven't been with anyone else in 10 months and now I miss that..I see That the last Guy isn't coming back and Why wait? Hell he has a girlfriend so yuuup! But now I haven't meet not one Guy but This other Guy but he has a girlfriend and I don't know What to think. I miss having male attention from a Guy who likes me, I miss talking on the phone. I miss going out on dates. I miss holding hands and I also miss driving around all night :( I don't know What to do. I don't want to repeat what I Did but Maybe thats all I'm good for ( being the other woman ) I hate feeling like this. I Have always waited and it Don't work. So you don't Have to tell me to be patient, it doesn't work. And I'm Really happy for my friends for having boyfriends but What about me??? I miss that feeling of being wanted but no-one has came my way and I give up on waiting. I also miss the sex like REALLY bad. But am I only good enough for being the other woman? I don't know what else to do. And EVERYONE is telling or asking my why don't I Have a boyfriend. LIKE I KNOW?!?!?!?!?!? I get mad When they ask me that all the time. Like leave me alone!! Ugh sometimes I wish that old Guy would come back to me, because I'm not going to meet anyone ever again. I don't want to be 99 when I FINALLY GET A GUY!! :(
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (24 March 2011):
 I had the same problem when I was younger. Except I didn't want or need a boyfriend. I watched all of my friends and their drama with their boyfriends and I didn't want to put up with that at that time.
I know it seems like it's going to take forever, but don't be sitting around waiting for the guy to come to you, get out there and have some fun. Be independant. You don't have to have a man to be happy. Have fun being yourself for a while. You're only 20. Get out there and live a little. You have your whole life ahead of you to worry about a bf and children and the whole she-bang.
Guys are attracted to girls who are comfortable with themselves and happy being on their own.
Don't let yourself be the other woman. Just don't.
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