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writes:I started work about september time and around christmas i started to like this girl who works there. I knew she was goin out with someone else but i talked 2 her friends and they said she doesnt know what she wants and she cant see what an idiot he is. So i told her i had feelings for her and then a few days later she said the same 2 me. I was so shocked. So she said she didn't know what to do. I told her to think about it. The next few weeks we went out a couple of times to lunch and stuff just as mates i thought but i dont know how she saw it. Then her boyfriend started threatening me. She always talked him down but he was very suspicious from then on and put a thing in her myspace so he could read her messages. i didnt know and he was reading her messages for about a month. she then told me that she wanted to stay with him which i accepted. Then he started sending me messages saying how i ruined everything and stuff. She was still really flirty and is now. I know she likes me and i love her. I've told her this and she didn't say anything. She rang me a few weeks ago and her bf was round her house. he made her say 2 me that she wud never talk 2 me again. I knew that she wasnt saying it voluntarily cuz she rang me when he went to explain. I love her so much. What can i do to change her mind. I know she likes me cuz she asks me 2 the stockroom with her. She is always hugging me and looking at me. She also finds ways to touch me like playfully hitting me with clothes and stuff. I have never met anyone like her and she is the one that I want to spend my life with. what can i do???
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reader, Kawika  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 I dont know...her boyfriend beams with insecurity, jealousy and possessive qualities. In a nutshell...dangerous. Obviously, she would need to make a stand and make a difficult choice. He is probably manipulating her mind with fear. It is possible that her indecisiveness may result upon you. She has already played the events in her mind and knows what her boyfriend may or may not do if she chooses you. The question is are you man enough to face the heat in order to set her free. Because it will get worse before it gets better. She needs to know that you will stick with her till the end. What are you prepared to do? She needs to know that you will be her knight and shining armor...thru thick and thin? Just my lowly opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): i see i dont know what you can do other then be there for her that's the best advice i can give i understand your pain im in love with someone who is in a relationship as well it's a very difficult position to be in and so far it has caused me happiness and heartache so be prepared for that good luck
-michael
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