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writes:i've beendealing with guy for 5 yrs but he has a girl who he lives with and has a 14 yr old son . he doesnt trust me but he doesnt want me around other guys or even talkin to guys. what i want t know does he hav feelings for me or am i jus someone that occupies his time. nothin for nothin he doesnt sleep with the girlfriend they sleep in seperate rooms,she works all tha time, shes not interesyted in tha things he likes. i dont know im jus confused.can u help me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (31 December 2009):
 You're someone who occupies his time. Don't fall for that "I just have someone who lives with me and we don't have sex" because 9,999 times out of 10,000 it's a lie. If he was seriously interested in you after 5 years you would be exclusively together. You're not. That tells you all you need to know right there.
The jealousy is just his way of making sure no one gets in the way when he wants to have you. Can't have anyone else keeping his side piece away from him!
Forget him and find someone who wants to be with you and only you. Never be a side girlfriend to anyone. Life is too short for that mess.
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 December 2009):
He lives with another woman, he doesn't trust you but doesn't' want you even talking to other guys? I would run a mile now. Clearly there are issues in his life he needs to sort out before anything else.
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