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writes:hello, I am a 20 years old girl, I dated a guy four years ago, I really loved him we were crazy in love but I did something wrong and he broke up with me I felt horrible for a very long time, we met after and we went out many times the previous year but he had a girlfriend, now he said that he want me back, like his girlfriend but I don't know, I love him but does he? he said it but I m not sure, does coming back to me is a proof of his love? or I m just too easy to fool? because these days we see each other only for sex... please help me
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reader, kitty20 +, writes (12 May 2010):
kitty20 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all for answering;
he always say to me when I try to start a conversation with him that I'm "the love of his life" and that he will always come back to me, I don't wanna chase him to see what h's doing but I worry too much about where is he and what he is doing, we only text these days because I don't have the time to meet him, I m studying for an exam and the entier situation makes me so confused and I m afraid that it will affect my future...
I can't get him out of my mind !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Hello,
So he had, or has a gf and you were meeting up with him. If he's was or is cheating on her how can you be certain he won't cheat on you?
If your just meeting for sex its sounds like he's using you.
Take sometime and think about this. Discuss things with him as well before jumping into a relationship again.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Well girl, I saw your post and I must say somethings...
First of all I believe everyone deserves a second chance;
I also believe that actions say so much more than just words;
I'm a romantic guy and I believe in happy endings, I think it wouldn't kill for both of you to give a new start on your relationship...
But keep in mind to always remember this is a re-start...
People change girl, for bad or hopefully for good. His words of Love won't be enough for a love to grow... You both have to give your selfs into this relationship... That's how love grows... Givin'
If you think he deserves a new start with you because his actions towards you are romantic and respectful then go for it...
If you feel he's just saying that so he can get you into bed then don't...
If you don't know what to decide I tell you another secret I've learned in life... Time will tell you what are his intentions... Like that Beatles song used to say... Let it be girl... No one can be that false for so long! If he's false he'll stop trying after a while... If he don't well I think you've got the picture...
And remember If you don't see a right place to walk to ahead of you any place will be just as good ;)
I hope my words could have done you good
Best wishes, and good luck :)
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reader, kitty20 +, writes (12 May 2010):
kitty20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you "the realist" for answering;
I did something bad to him 4 years ago ( that was the one and the only time I did something bad to him ) I lied about beeing pregnant to not lose him because he said to me that he needed a break...I didn't undersand that and I was really in love with him so I lied..
I love him still..
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 I think its best to move on to someone else. I'm wondering what you did because if he is one to freak out about little things and dump you then he definitely isn't worth it. It should take alot more then a couple words for him to prove himself. If you want to take another chance with him then make him wait for things and show that he can have a relationship with you. Personally I wouldn't give him that chance.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Don't have sex until you are sure about him. Has he forgiven you? Have you discussed about what went wrong and are you confident that the issues will be resolved? Does he trust that whatever happened would not happen again? Before you have that kind of talk there is no resolution, no direction for the future. Coming back to you can also mean that he sees you as someone he can fall back on. He probably still has feelings for you. But would he stick by you when he finds someone who suits him better come along? That I don't know and you have to ask him.
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