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*m81690
writes: Do I have cause for concern here or am I just jealous?I started seeing a chick, and she has a ton of friends who're guys, and I always see myspace pictures of her drinking with these guys, and them having their arms around her and whatnot.Another thing that concerns me a bit is that she is best friends with a lot of the same people. A girl I dated not long ago is friends with her, and that girl stopped talking to me, and ignores me completely.So I'm wondering if maybe she could end up saying something to her?Do you think this'll work out? Or am I just being overly paranoid here, thanks.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (5 October 2007):
It's OK to date a girl like her but don't expect much unless she makes big changes in her style, which you should not push for.
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (5 October 2007):
jm81690 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks.She is a bit of a partier, but I couldn't tell her to calm down on the partying unless I practise what i preach.And I appreciate the comment about the girl I dated previously, I was a bit worried there.
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reader, Basschick +, writes (5 October 2007):
Hmmm...sounds like you're dating a party-girl. If you're uncomfortable with her partying antics, you'd better plan on going along next time, or tell her it makes you uncomfortable for her to be so chummy and physical with other guys. As for the other girl, you dated not long ago who is also a friend of hers, I wouldn't put much thought into the fact that she no longer talks to you -- maybe she's just not too happy you moved on so quickly. Her opinion is irrelevant in this situation.
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