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writes:hey, i'm 14 and i really really really like this guy, ive liked him for 7 months now, im extremely close to him, we're really good friends, the thing is i never told anyone i liked him, until today when i told my 3 best friends.They were completely shocked and i had a long talk with one of my closest friends, and she told me that shes realised that he's different around me than he is with other girls, im too scared to tell him, i only told my best friends because i wrote that i like him on a paper and my mum read it and confronted me and so i decided to just tell them, as it was about time i let it out to a few people.But im still too scared to let it out to him, i know im overweight and i think that might be an issue, i just dont have the guts to tell him! I really dont know what to do, i was thinking of just trying to forget about him and move on but i can't it's too hard as ive liked him for many months i cant just put my feelings aside and get on with life, ive tried many a times but i just cant.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (6 October 2007):
Don't be so eager to give up on him. Stick with it. It may turn out alright.
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reader, loveableprincess +, writes (5 October 2007):
 right now you are probly feeling comfussed, ive been in this situation, if he acts differently around you and you two are really great friends already, if he likes you he won't care about your faults. the best thing to do is tell him, because you don't wanna live your life with all these what ifs- like what if you told him.because once you know 4 sure he don't like you then you know u have 3 move on, just take a chance but if you are really scared you can get a mate to tell him, or if its really hard you can ask him if just the 2 of u could do something and c what happens,if he is a true friend and you tell him and he don't like you in that way then he will let u know nicely and stiill be your friend, you never know he may like you 2, so go and find out!
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