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*nnonymous..
writes:So me and my boyfriend have been daiting for about 6 months we havent had sex yet but we started having oral sex he would only do it to me but today things went a lil farther i gave hima hand job and he put me in different positions but i felt alot of pain. we dint have sex but he was rubbin me with his penis but it was extremly painful... ): and after we were done we took a nap but when i woke i felt really discusiting.. i really really like i love him but why do i feel disgusting? inside me i felt really emotional!! like if i did something really really bad.. can some one give advice?!
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (25 May 2012):
 Sorry ur post said 13 to 15 so i thought u might only been 13, and dint want give out the wrong advice. but still if he cares about u, well he wont care that ur not ready. you just need tAlk to him and only u will know when u are ready . good luck sweetie.Xx
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reader, Wisdom +, writes (24 May 2012):
 No I don't think so, and if he did than he is not the right boy for you :)
Relax and take your time, sex is a HUGE deal. There is no rush to do it. When you are ready and take that step, if it is the right man you will have an experience that you will treasure for the rest of your life.... zGive it up too easily or for the wrong man and you will have a regret for the rest of your life
Good luck OP
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reader, Annonymous.. +, writes (24 May 2012):
Annonymous.. is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well i am 16 and he is 17 ../;
everytime we bring up the subject.! we end up changing! thanks alot!
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (24 May 2012):
I agree that i think u are far to young to even be considering sex. Yr body had not fully even developed yet. Talk to ur bf and tell him how yr feeling . If he loves u he will understand. And u never know , he might not be ready either. Xx
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reader, Annonymous.. +, writes (24 May 2012):
Annonymous.. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much!:D
do you think he would take offensively?
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reader, Wisdom +, writes (24 May 2012):
Oh sweetpea, that is your body and your mind telling you theat you are not ready for this, Remember reading all the comments on posts like this one where all the aunts would say things like "your too young" "your not ready" etc? Well the emotions you are feeling tell us that you are not ready.
When you are those feelings won't be there. It will feel natrual and good and with the right man wonderful... But ONLY when you are 100% ready.
Take your time and talk to your BF I am sure you will find he will be understanding
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