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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I hooked up with this girl (who I’ve flirted with at prior parties) at a party but didn’t have sex with her because we were both too drunk. I got her number, been texting each other lots about whatever, and have made out with her once since our hookup (at another party). Anyway she was drunk one night and wanted me to come over (obviously for sex) but I declined for other reasons... another night, she was drinking and invited me to come over for the next night (I assumed for sex)... when I asked if it was still cool if I came over (the next day) she was saying that her sober and intoxicated selves were at a conflict about me... so I’m like wtf? Now she’s mad at me because she thinks I just want sex but I told her I didn’t (I don’t)... she claims that’s what she wanted to hear... so my question is;Was I just a drunken mistake? Or does she realize she doesn’t want to ruin the potential relationship by having sex too early?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 I think she's been fed a line of crap more than once. "That's what she wanted to hear." Is she saying that as "I appreciate you saying that." or as "I've been told that before." I'd ask her, what's conflicting? What does she want, if anything? Get your questions answered, instead of waiting or assuming you might know which direction this is going to go.
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