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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been going out with this girl since last Sunday and I think i'm in love but don't want to tell her yet however I'm not sure she feels the same with me. On sunday after I asked her out we both went swimming and it ended up me holding her and it felt to me like she wanted to kiss, she looked into my eyes and smiled at me but I didn't kiss her. She came to my house 3 days later and we watched a movie, during the movie we ended up kissing and holding hands.Both of these times she text me afterwards to say she enjoyed herself. Finally last night we met up again but she was on her period and it seemed to me like she was avoiding me, I had to open all conversations, she kept on moving away from me If I got close and afterwards I got no text. She said she thought we were going too fast, but I don't know how slow to go. I want to have a long term relationship with her and I don't know whether she did this because of her period or because she's just not into me. Any advice?
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reader, i.love.you +, writes (26 July 2010):
 PERIODS ARE A TURN OFF!
I love my boyfriend but if I can avoid seeing him the five days I'm bleeding and smelly - I will!
It is just that time of the month where you're argumentative, detatched and alien to everyone - plus, I avoid everyone anyway without the extra hormones because of the sheer unattractive smell that is unavoidable!
Unfortunatly, I'd say anything to get my way out of hugging my boyfriend when I'm on my period without telling him - such as; one time I told him I was very close to being sick (he has a problem with vomit) this continued for two hours before school ended.
It's fine, and I hope this helps :)
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (25 July 2010):
 She probably felt like she shouldn't be that close to you incase you tried something which would be embarressing for her because of her period, also when girls are on their period they don't feel the prettiest of people. Please, take it slow, talk to each other, get to know each other, go out and do stuff together and you'll know when it's right to take things further. Don't tell her you love her just yet because that really is going too fast
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