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*enie53uk
writes:Hey everyone i need help my partner and i been together for 3 years, hes stolen money of me 3 times and I caught him using my credit card. i got angry with him when he did ths before and he promised he wouldnt do it. He then stole money from my purse again yesterday and it was money for us to go out tht day i got so angry i cancelled it as im always getting money out as he aint got a job. Is this guy taking me for a mug for my money and should i leave him?
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 July 2010):
 You don't need help with your 'partner'...you need help for yourself. He is not a partner as that suggests this is a proper relationship. You are allowing this man to abuse your trust and you keep taking him back. You are being a doormat for him to walk over and he just sees you as a piggy bank, not his girlfriend. Lots of people are struggling with money and employment issues at the moment but if you have no trust in your relationship then you have no relationship. He obviously doesn't care about you so why are you putting up with this loser? He will steal again and you could never set up home with him or have kids with him because he would be taking their toys back to cash converter's at the earliest opportunity. Put a padlock on your purse and walk away. Being single is better than being taken advantage of by a scrounger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Is he taking you for a mug? Yes. And by staying with him, are you letting him? Yes.
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