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writes:I have recently been talking to an ex-girlfriend for whom i have not seen or spoken too for many years,i guess she was ok at the time but unfortunately it did not work out between us due to my insecurities the thing is i am in a relationship with a wonderful girl who i know loves me dearly and will do almost anything i ask of her she also treats me well and gives me everything i want or need an the sex is exellent.we have had our share of ups and downs as couples do and we manage to overcome them by way of compromise the issue is that i am aware that i am attracted to my ex and we have flirted alittle would it be foolish enough to think we could rekindle what we once had and risk losing my current girlfriend who i love would you?(guys only please)
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reader, deadduderc  +, writes (7 August 2009):
All I can tell you is that I made one of the worst mistakes in my life by getting back together with one of my ex-girlfriends after we were apart for several years and the second breakup was even worse. Everyone's situation is different but most people don't change all that much over time, so if you want to get back together and make things work, one or both of you will probably have to change quite a bit.
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (7 August 2009):
I know what it is to lose a great relationship because of insecurities. To me, it sounds like you have moved forward and are now the confident man you wish you were when you first knew your ex. Now that she has re-entered your life, because you are still attracted to her and have become the man you wanted to be, you are wondering if there is still something there to rekindle. A chance to make right something that went wrong....
I can understand you still might have feelings for your ex but from what you are saying, I think it would be a mistake to risk losing someone you love for an uncertain possibility.
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