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writes: I need a little advice. Maybe I'm expceting to much to fast.I ran into this guy that I use to work with 2 weeks ago. He told me that he was divorced and ask about taking me out to eat. When we worked together he seemed to be a nice guy and he thought I was a nice woman,so the day that we saw each other I did give him my number. He called the same night, but I didn't answer. He called the next day and we talked.We talked on a Tuesday and made plans to go out that Friday. He told me to call him anytime, so I called him later that night. He talked about taking me on some trips, which sound good. By the second night he told me he didn't like talking on the phone a lot, so I didn't call him. I decided to let him call if he wanted to talk.Friday came. There is nothing to do in the town that I live in so he invited me to his place. I helped him with a few things there then we went out to eat and afterwards to the park. I really enjoyed myself. After we left the park we went back to his place to look at a movie. He tried to sleep with me but I let him know that I don't do that on first dates.After I left his house I went out of town on a trip that I had planned with the church for the weekend. I got back Sunday night. He called and talked a few minutes.He likes to commuicate by text so he text the next 2 days. our next date was suppose to be that Wed but I didn't make it. We got together this pass Sat. Since he had worked 12 hours, I decided to cook dinner and bring it over. I brought him a souvenir from the trip and some items that I had to help him out with his new home. We ate he enjoyed the food. He put a movie in. He seemed to be trying to sleep with me again, but mother nature was on and I still was not going to sleep with him on the second date. We both were off yesterday. He didn't say anthing about getting together. He sent a text early in the day to see how I was and called later to see how I was.This morning I got a call that my uncle died from a massive heartattack. I didn't call him, but when he texted me today to see how I was, I told me about my uncle. He sent me a text. I'm a little hurt. Even though we have only been on 2 dates I feel like he should have called and talked to me. Am I wanting to much to fast. If It was him I would have called and see if he needed me to come sit with him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
From a male.
It isn't that he doesn't care. He's a man, and when men have probolems they tend to go into themselves to deal with them. In contrast, women tend to like to get it all out in the open. He might think he's actually doing the right thing by leaving you to deal with it alone. Or he may be very unsure of how to handle your grief. If you want to talk to him, tell him you'd like to talk him over the phone or you'd like to see him to talk. He seems to like you a lot, so I'm sure he won't refuse. I'm sorry about your uncle as well. All the best. x
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