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*at1235
writes:I know there have been other posts like this but...My problem is that recently I have found that to get in the mood for sex with my boyfriend of two years I have started to imagine myself being with another woman. And it really gets me in the mood... I find I then only want touching or oral sex with my partner. I still love him so so much, and I really want to be with him.I also have found myself watching girl-on-girl porn occasionally, and I really enjoy it. But I don't if there are men in it. And I've even started thinking it would be amazing to be with a woman...So, I was just wondering, has anyone else had this happen? What was your outcome? Am I just bi-curious? Or could it maybe be something more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011): You could be, but I find that as human beings with are very fluid when it comes to sexuality.
You do not have to label yourself one bit but if you want to experience sex with a woman then do so. It really isn't that big of a deal. Everyone likes something different.
I'm bisexual....known since I was in the 7th grade and it is no big deal to me. I fall in like with people not their gender.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): This is actually pretty common, most women don't talk about it, and some are frankly afraid of it when it occurs.
Straight women, bi women, and lesbian women do it.
Lesbian women occasionally will even fantasize about men.
Read about women's sexual fantasies and you will find out that this is not that unusual.
Acting on it is another issue. By the way, women are not more awesome in bed, or trouble free, than men...as many women (and men) have found out.
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson +, writes (29 August 2011):
I couldn't say for sure but it sounds like you could be more. Tell me, do you still enjoy penetrative sex (with a penis) with your boyfriend and do you still find yourself attracted to other men? You could be bisexual but it sounds like you could be gay (though that is just a theory with only what you have given us so far to go on)
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