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writes:I'm 19 years old and so is he, I've known this boy for almost 2 years, he lived in my halls of residence in my first year at uni, we never really got close but were aquaintances, but I always fancied him a little bit. A few nights ago I was out with some friends and we saw him there, I was chatting to him for a while, although we were both a bit drunk, and we ended up kissing, all night, until I went home. I gave him my number and told him to text me if he wanted to, but I haven't heard from him since. Do you think he's just not interested? Or have I not given him long enough? And do you think I should contact him? Thanks for your help! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou all, I thought that I shouldn't get in touch, just checking :) and he is single, I suppose he just isn't interested! never mind hey...x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is single...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): Do you know if he has a girlfriend or is he single...
It can be possible that he feels guilty about what happened. Because if you guys had a good time I dont see any reason why he shouldnt call up.. But at any cost YOU DONT CALL HIM
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (12 March 2010):
It depends, the only way to know would be if we were able to read his mind. He may think you were cool and enjoyed making out with you, but he's just not interested in anything more. I agree to give it another week and just assume he's a lost cause if you don't hear from him. And no, don't contact him.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (12 March 2010):
 Ok could be a few reasons here;
1. The alchohol gave him the courrage he needed to communicate with you. In this case he likes you but is too shy. In this case he will probably call you soon.
2. Hes with someone else, and it was a one night thing because he either wanted it or the drink helped him cheat.
3. Hes not into you.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (12 March 2010):
 Guys can be very weird and hard for us girls to read, but I'd say if you don't hear from him in a week that it was probably the alcohol doing the talking for him that night. You already made it clear that you'd like him to contact you, I wouldn't contact him again. If he's interested, he'll be in touch.
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