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All of my bf's friends are females -and- they are all people he's either hooked up with or had a crush on. He doesn't understand why it would bother me that he's hanging out with them. What do I do?

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Question - (8 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

All of my bf's friends are females -and- they are all people he's either hooked up with or had a crush on. He doesn't understand why it would bother me that he's hanging out with them. What do I do?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (8 July 2007):

eddie agony auntIt depends on how often he sees them and how friendly they are. I don't think it's a great idea because I truly don't believe it's THAT easy to separate the feelings once you've been attracted to someone. I just don't think it's a great idea.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntHas he ever given you any reason to make you think he would cheat on you?

If not then i think you just need to trust him, ok so they are all girls and exs but he is with you now and if he did not want that then he would not be with you.

You could tell him how you feel, but if you let your insecurities about this rule your relationship it may well ruin it.

Take care.xx.

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