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All my mates are going out with people from our school! Why isn't there someone for me?

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Question - (23 September 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi Im 15 and this is my last yr in school :D 1st question: there just doesnt seem to be ANY boys in my school that i have any interest in! i dont wanna go out wiv any of them! but all my mates are going out wiv people from our school. y isnt there someone for me?

2nd question: i want to be wiv a boy that only wants me and noone else. i dont want him to fancy loads of people like some boys do. i just would like a one girl man if u know what i mean, but r any boys like this and can i find a boy thats like that that i can be with?

i just dont know where they are and when i will find one, i go to sports clubs but they are definitly not the boys i wanna be wiv, their all chavy and horrible :(

ps im going to college when i leave school, just wanted to say that cos i'm looking forward to it lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006):

im the person who asked this question again lol: oh yer, i forgot to say, do u think i will find a boy i like in college?

cos there just seems to be hardly any boys around... thanx :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006):

Hi im the person who asked this question: thanx for your advise but i certainly do not just want a boyfriend to impress my friends. and i dont want a boyfriend cos they all have ones.

i have neveer had one before and i just want someone to care about me like that, thats all.

Anymore advise anyone can give me is good :D

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):

Toria agony auntYour young and trying to rush something that just isn't the right time, the right person will come along just doesn't have to be now, if you continue looking for someone you will end up picking the wrong person and be unhappy, just because your mates all have boyfriends does not mean you should have aswell, doesn't mean there isn't noone for you just means there haven't come into your life just yet.

Good luck :o)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006):

Hun, I know you are young and want to date, like your friends...but is it really the end of the world if you don't date a guy? I guess, I'm trying to understand why you need a 'guy' to validate who you are and are you only wanting this to impress your friends? Take your time looking around and find the guy that is special for just you. He may not show up in your life right away but who cares...always choose wisely when the time comes. Gosh, you are at a wonderful age-just have fun, stay positive and live life to the fullest.

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A male reader, ogga +, writes (23 September 2006):

hey i have the same problem but im a male and there arent any girls whointerest me at school, im also 15 and in my last year and yeah in schools its hard to find someone like that i think in my school all the girls are chavvy and the thing is , and im guesing you're a rocker/emo/trendy or something along those lines but chavs are going to be doing sports, personally i go to a drama group and its full of non-chavs an dmost of the lads there are pretty decent guys, in the uk it is very much split into groups (chavs,rockers,trnedy's,emos etc) if you start hanging round with the type of people you have things in common with you will quickly find someone for you, with my drama group i have never seen such a bunch of lovely people compared to people in school so it was a great thing to do, just go out there and do some different things, hope i helped

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