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writes:There is this woman at work that is married, however I believe she is very much into me. I am female as well. She sometimes flirts very heavy with me and then the next day or so she tones it down and acts like were just good friends. She and her husband are live in managers at a retirement home I work at. She is with him 24 hours a day 7 days a week. She has said a couple times while we were laughing and having a good time that she and I should manage the place, because they are getting ready to fire some co-managers. When I asked what about John? She shoes him away with her arm. She takes very good care of me as well. She does parts of my job and gets me coffee and yogart etc. and she touches me a lot. I told her that I could not work for the co-managers (no respect)should they be moved up into the manager position and when she and her husband move back to Florida I would move on as well. The next day she told me she didn't sleep all night because she was thinking of me. On her day off she checks in with me and she makes sure she comes out of her apartment before I leave at 4:30 to say good bye. She has told me a few times that when they go back home to Florida they were taking me with them. I just don't know what to make of it or what other signs to look for to tell if she really is into me. Without letting her know that I am very much into her (don't want to be rejected) are there any questions or things I can do to find out if she is falling for me? Thank you so much for any advice!
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reader, Amethyst +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Wow, she's very much into you.... and she's basically being very bold about letting you know.
If you're really into her, and you're willing to go through the problems that may soon arise, I'd say you should flirt back. Next time she mentions something about the two of you doing something, go along with it! Flirt with her too, tell her things like... umm.... "you look pretty in that outfit." o.O you know what I mean hopefully.
As for questions... maybe you could ask if she's happy with her husband? See what kind of responses she gives you. Maybe ask her for a "girls only" dinner or something, and see how she reacts to it. Go out for lunch or something. Since you don't want to be blunt about it, that's really all you've got. I mean, you COULD always ask her if she ever had unfaithful thoughts after being married?
Good luck with it, and I hope it works out!
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