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writes: Howdy, need some help. How do you spot a gay closet man, that's hiding his true colours, and is as manly and butch as possible, but something somehow gives it away? what is it?I've met this guy, the best looking, well groomed, fashionable, smells great, AMAZING TASTE, walks like a proud MALE, has all of us ladies staring, is logical, sensible, sense of style, and in touch with his feeling, and other people around him, in short the perfect male, but there is something that gives it away that he is gay, and I know, I've seen him watching other guys, but when he sees that I knotice he remarks on how beatifully elegant the next lady that walks by looks, he's smart, best buddy to shop with, but I have this sense, I think I'm trying to not see the clear picture, but he is the perfect man, and I think he is gay, plus he is single, a hopeless romantic.Why do some people sense these things, or is there something that a gay individual tries to hide, but still shows, I hope I'm making sense, here, and the problem is, i've fallen in love with him.Help. THANKS Reply to this Question
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reader, charlottie +, writes (8 March 2006):
hehe, well you never know ;) well i would say the same things really, sometimes things arent as they seem and you will never know unless you ask .good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): To Charlottie,The anonymous FEMALE writer of the question is straight.. that is how she has falen in love with this MALE who she thinks is GAY. Just to clear it up.. as I don't know if u got the wrong end of it.x
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reader, charlottie +, writes (3 March 2006):
well i really hope for that he is gay too but i will mention that i have a good friend that is gay and as lovely as he is he really does think that every guy he is attracted to is gay, he even liked my husband and tried to tell me that "he knew" that my husband was a "closet gay"!hehe (of course he isnt)but what im trying to say is that for the most part we see what we want to see but we will never really know for sure unless we take some action to find out, the only problem i can see you having in finding out is (presuming he is gay) he has decided to act straight in front of you which i would consider to mean that he would feel somewhat uncomfortable about the whole thing.does he know that you are homosexual? if not maybe the first step would be to let him know and see where he stands with that, if all is good then let him know you have feelings , as nothing will change if you dont
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 You should just make a move on this guy and see how he reacts. There is not really a standard thing that gives away homosexuality. He could be a metrosexual! You will never really know unless you either come on out and ask him or just bust a move and see what happens. Good luck!
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