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writes:So I found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me! I took her virginity but still she slept with another guy only 2 months after I took it. I know she was a virgin because she's inexperienced and she bleed the first time we had sex. Also, it took about a week for me to be able to even get it in. Basically she was crying a lot about it and I cant trust her anymore. But when I was trying to break it off she told me she loved me and kind of brought me back. We had only been truly dating for about 2 months. Any suggestions??
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 February 2012):
 Dealbreaker. She does not love you when she cheats on you, because she doesn't respect you or care about your well being or your feelings. She only cares for herself. Claiming she loves you is just something she says to keep you around. You have known her for 2 months, yet she claims to love you (does she even know you well enough to do that?) and she has cheated. This is a BAD start.
Dump her and walk away. A cheater is a cheater, she'll do it again, and the respect you have for her is gone as well as the trust being gone.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (22 February 2012):
 if you can't trust her then it's time to move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 February 2012):
 After only 2 months? Yes. Why stick around for more heartache? If she really cared she wouldn't have cheated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2012): shes a cheater. what more can we say?
cut your loses kid. once a cheater always a cheater. u are young and if she cannot sew her legs together now, do not expect it in future.
she cried CROCODILE tears and u fell for it.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (22 February 2012):
 If she has cheated already then it isnt going to work I'm afraid. You should still be in the 'honeymoon' phase where you are all loved up and happy, you shouldnt even be looking at anyone else let alone sleeping with someone else!
She has broken your trust and done something pretty unforgiveable, and if she has done it so early in the relationship chances are she will do it again. If you take her back she will know she can get away with it, so she will do it again because she knows you wont leave her.
This is just my opinion, but I dont think it will work and you are best to end it now.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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