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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have just recently heard from one of my friends that my ex best friend misses me, I miss her too but its been 4 years since we last talked.. we fell out over something silly. I don't know how to approach the situation now in case she has a new bunch of friends. I don't want to look stupid. Another girl I worked with knew her and she said that my ex best friend told her i had no friends in school, and so on. lol. Seriously so untrue. I think she was just being bitchy. When i saw my ex best friend at a party she and her mother said hi and she kept looking at me, probably to get my attention, but i didn't say or do anything. Now i wish I had said or done something, because I know I was being childish at the time. But hearing she asked about me still, and said we were best friends, and misses me, I really want to move on and get in contact with her again.But should I? I'm so confused. She doesn't have facebook either. It was something silly that we broke up over. Do you think it necessary to detail that? Or can it be accepted, that it was just silly?We had so much fun and was really the only friend i trusted. Help lol
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 I say get back in touch with her. Especially if you two stopped talking over something that is so silly now. Why not send her a text, email or give her a call and just say that you miss her and want to know if she wants to get together sometime. I run into people at school like that where we haven't talked in four years but it seems to be easy to start again. I'm sure if this girl wants to be your friend again it will come really easy for the both of you.
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